Winds of change ….. by mooch

I’m not going to explain myself against the lies told about me and my family  I don’t need to, I know the truth.

I’m not going to explain my parenting or apologize for being able to communicate well with children.  It’s inbuilt, it’s who I am, it’s my job.

Any part of my life that has been sullied and dirtied online by others is not my issue, it is theirs.

There are a few things I’ve done that I wish I hadn’t.  None of which were done with any intent to cause hurt to others and for any of those, I apologize.  Everyone is fighting their own battle after all, I hope I haven’t added burden to any of yours.

Exactly 2 years ago … there were 4 of us chatting regularly, Lav, Jones, Kate and Me.

I have nothing to say about Jones, I think it has all been said before.  For me, it is gone, buried, over.

I always thought Lav was a bit of a dick in the beginning, took a while to see the man beneath the manner.  It’s fair to say I only stopped thinking he was a dick about a year ago.  Three things have made me warm to him, his adoration of his family, the fact that he has kept any personal details about me to himself and lastly, that he is just himself and if you don’t like it, he genuinely couldn’t give a fuck!

I would go through all the crap again to have found a friend like Kate, I am blessed to have found her and to have kept her in my life, she is warm, thoughtful, kind, funny and genuine and I hope I know her forever.  Kate has followed this sorry tale from start to end and as no longer on social networking sites, I offered to let her have her say here …

Blessed Be x


This little fella is an innocent child.

We all started like him and most of us have them now.
Decisions made by parents affect us all.
Mainly among the group…death(which is not a decision),alcohol,bad parenting…leading to abusive childhoods and even ending up in care.

So when as parents now,after a shit childhood you strive to do the oppisite and be the best…where are we at?

Know nothing of Chris Spiveys past but have seen proof of his parenting.His protection of his grandchild.Fighting the exact corrupt services like the Police and Social Services .
He has an online issue with someone who previously had befriended and bang.
A blog full of comments geared towards his kids,parenting and vile derision of him asking for the public to come together and safeguard his daughter and grandson.
Massive respect from me.The man is using his online presence to walk the talk.

Madamemooch, slagged off for letting her daughter skype in the bath. A passing tweet made sinister.Comments made On a blog of someone she befriended.Met,supported.
Imagine being a teen and having a best friend,a friend you shared everything with.Thoughts,pain,laughter,you get the drift.Imagine growing up in no danger,no harm and being confortable with your body.
No shame……
Im over the moon that this young woman is free to chat wherever she wants with her friend…bath or not.Amazing daughter of an amazing and balanced woman with great tits!!!
So Jennie,whilst I am aware of your past,its pretty low to project your triggers or disgust onto someone else.
That was your best shot against madamemooch?
Still bringing it up on blog comments,yet justifying your actions by saying its your time of the month?
Fuck off.
Darren Laverty,another parent.
Now may I make it clear I do not know him personally.Never spoken to him.
Tweets and email only.
Darren shows what he needs and wants to.
I understand that.
Said from day one he could be brutal,bit of a cunt to be honest, but learned behind the man there was a family.Days out,time spent together, all proof shown.
So his online presence is down to him.Thats not my concern.
His kids however,and wife have been attacked.Comments on a blog.A blog of someone he befriended.
Anyone see the pattern here?
Another wife and children dragged in by others to get at him.He has every right to defend them.Id have put you in a shallow grave if it was my family.
Police involved.
One thing I will say is he has had my details and name.
Has it ever been outed on the web?
I will meet him soon and trust my instinct on what or who he really is

Can I say the same about the comments on the same blog that I have previously mentioned?
Called a compo chaser yet had not discussed my personal circumstances with Jane.??

The blog owner that moderates comments.
Allows this to continue.
Jane fucking Russell who has a hand up his arse spewing her bile about anyone she can.
And he allows it.
So heres another 3 kids being attacked…jj words.
Threat of fire,name calling at school.
No proof posted.JJ,s word only.
Which can I make clear Im not saying is a lie.But if we have to believe your word with no proof why is it ok for others to comment on your blog about”no proof”?
A distressed wife and may I say,a great Mother. Kids upset while daddy in the nick or the hospital.
Listening to conversations.
A wife who has been dragged into this and made a choice to stay involved.
As one mother to another Helen,I hope you hear me.
I hope you realise that this has all came to your door because of blogs and twitter.
Something that can be closed in a second.
It has came to your door because your husband chooses to let the fire be poked and stoked by his “friend” jane.
I walked away from my friendship with jj and helen for my reasons and I will make it clear I want no harm to come to any of them.
But as they know,and have spoken to me i call a spade a spade and if your being a fud I will call you on it.
Thats my strength.It drives me to keep shit from my door or my children.
Press the button and enjoy your family.
Lastly, Jane Russell.(she does exist)
You have no kids.
So why the fuck under a guise of a friend thats so concerned about jj and his family do you continue to spew venom from your mouth about everyone else? Bringing shit to the door and watching jj’s wife be accused of saying the words from your mouth.
You are a cunt.
Nothing more to say.
Fuck off

You all have my number,email..if you have issue with my honesty.
Could have said so much more..included others but my time is precious…for that angel at the top of the page.

I wont be reading fuck all again.
Hope you all do the same.

One massive positive to come from all this is a lifetime friendship with a beautiful soul
Love you Mooch